Learn to love yourself

Tell yourself!

It is not always easy to accept ourselves, or nether the less love ourselves. We live in a world, where loving ourselves is not a common thing. We are always looking for love – the love from others, but as the years pass we forget that we deserve not only love from those around us, but our own love as well.

Sometimes we struggle to accept the way we are, but each and everyone are different. We have different dreams, different goals, ambitions, and we all look different. Therefore we should love the fact that we are different.

Loving yourself fully may feel a bit uncomfortable at first depending on your past, but regardless of where you’ve been it is possible. Maybe in your early teens, you could have spent your time resenting yourself because you felt so inadequate. A change in attitude can surely help you to start loving yourself again. Feel good about yourself, dress fantastic everyday, put a smile on your face and before you leave your place in the morning, tell yourself in the mirror – “I love myself”. By loving yourself again, your life will slowly be transformed.

The video below is such an inspiring piece. Have a look! Love yourself!

Editor: Roelien Zwart

Picture Sourced: (healthyurbankitchen.com) 

Feelings follow behaviour

Feelings follow behaviour…. behaviour can hurt other people

Feelings can be easily created and it can be easily broken. Feelings can be confusing, distracting, irritating, or frustrating unless you understand what they are about. Feelings can follow behaviour. Behaviour reacts from the feelings.

A girl fell in love with this guy and feelings have formed, but after five long years the relationship ended unexpectedly, and she was distraught. The girl really thought that this guy was the love of her life! The one! The man she would marry and be with forever.  They had been together for such a long time and she didn’t imagine for the relationship to end. Her heart was broken. No! Her feelings were broken!

Her behaviour was based on feelings of being hurt and she ended up hurting those around her. Her behaviour was changed by her feelings. Behaviour is sometimes based on feelings; it can be lack of a certain feeling. She acted strange, was unfriendly and very sad, and that made her behave in an utterly way.

 

Editor: Roelien Zwart

Picture Sourced: (thenewermetaphysicals.blogspot.com)